f_ckinginibiza: (Take it off.)
2009-06-19 11:06 am
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So I got a Dreamwidth Account...

Yesterday, Jess ([personal profile] butterflytiger_1982 ) asked me if I wanted a Dreamwidth account. Obviously, I said yes, because it looked too freaking cool and I can just see it being a really big thing in the future. So, I just wanted to mention how awesome some of the features are. For instance, she showed me the diversity statement they have on here/there (bear with me on the here and there, I'm posting this on dw and lj).

Reading this is a must! I've never seen another diversity statement like it. Check it out.

Then there are a bunch of other cool features on here/there like importing everything from your Livejournal Account to your Dreamwidth account with just one button! You just go to Organize then to Import Content and you're basically all set. You can import your friends, your profile, everything. Also, there's no advertising on any accounts, even free ones. No banners, no nothing. Everything looks sharp, nice and clean. Then there's another really cool feature where you can cross post things on your Livejournal (Insanejournal, Deadjournal, etc) by default. So you don't have to copy and paste everything again, it just does it automatically if you set up your other accounts to your Dreamwidth.

So far I'm really liking all these features! And thanks to Jess for showing it to me. ^^  I have no doubt in my mind that Dreamwidth will be the next big thing.

f_ckinginibiza: (Whatever)
2009-05-24 08:15 am
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One-Shot: Confessions of a Needy Boyfriend

Title: Confessions of a Needy Boyfriend
Author: f_ckinginibiza
Timeline: Post Season 5
Rating: PG
Summary: One-Shot. Some schmoop, for shits and giggles. Canon.

Confessions of a Needy Boyfriend )
f_ckinginibiza: (Take it off.)
2009-05-23 03:13 am
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Writer's Block: Meant to Be?

The path that people follow is not led by fate, but instead by decisions based upon preferences and impulses. When a person is born, their life is not predetermined by anybody, not even themselves, their family, or the type of environment they are raised in. Though every circumstance that someone faces is created because of another persons decision, an individual can overcome any situation with several solutions that each may take them into separate paths.
f_ckinginibiza: (Take it off.)
2009-05-23 12:34 am
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Writer's Block: There Can Be Only One

Being in an exclusive relationship does not make you automatically form feelings for someone. Likewise, being sexual with more than one person does not limit the love, loyalty, or admiration a person has for his or her partner. Monogamy has nothing to do with the feelings or devotion you have for your partner because these feelings do not arise from solely "belonging" to them but, instead, from the experiences that have shaped you both into a different, better, person.

I don't believe monogamy is the only way to be devoted to someone. There are different ways to show your love and to show your loyalty. You can be loyal by standing up for, respecting, and by wanting the absolute best for your partner. But to most, it is not uncommon to associate polygamy with "infidelity". Infidelity is the violation of trust between two intimate persons by being unfaithful. But solely, the act of being polygamous does not label you unfaithful. Therefore, infidelity is defined by the rules and limits that have been agreed upon in a relationship.

Monogamy is not a requirement for love nor is it a requirement for a happy relationship as long as the persons involved have established their expectations and boundaries for each other.